Change through self acceptance
Nothing can change when you live in denial. When you pretend that everything is okay when it isn’t, or when you refuse to look at what the problem is.
I understand, it’s scary stuff, if you look at it then you have to do something about it! And so people decide not to look at whatever is wrong in their life. They decide to complain about not having the perfect relationship rather than doing something to create it. They whine about health, weight, debt and all the time not willing to do a thing.
Awareness followed by acknowledgement = acceptance
When you become aware of the problem and choose to acknowledge it then it can lead to acceptance.
Once you accept that something needs to change the next question is how do I do it?
And the "how" of change is one of the biggest reasons people don’t try, because they just don’t know how or what to do next, or even who to talk to.
Which is why when I bought the license for the Lee Milteer course Successful Life Strategies to Capitalize on Change I decided to set up a membership site so I can continue to support people who bought the product from me.
As a Personal Growth Coach I have the skills, knowledge and expertise to be able to help anyone with a change they want to make. So not only do you get access to the Lee Milteer course whenever you want and need it, but you also get to interact with other members through tele-seminars and get extra support from me as your host.
So if you are ready to accept that change must happen in your life then visit http://www.inspirationalguidance.co.uk and sign up as a member today.
Diane
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building selfDreaming is easy
Dreaming is easy. Wanting to be a successful doctor or sharp-witted
lawyer requires no effort at all. Actually being one is a totally
different story. Why? Because things are always “easier said than
done”. However, this should not stop you from believing in your dreams
and pursuing them, in spite of how hard things may be at times.
It’s through proper focus and concentration that you will be able to
achieve your dreams and reach your goals. Aside from developing focus
and determination, you should also have a deep sense of passion in
order to fuel your desire to a successful life.
Your drive to achieve something will help you develop a certain
amount of focus to attain your set goals. Here are some tips to help
you keep your focus on the things that you want to achieve. Write down
your goals – It never hurts to be organized with things. Sure, your
ultimate goal may be to become a successful doctor or to start your own
hospital; but that’s way getting ahead of yourself. Just think that if
you’re only in high school now, you still have a long, long, long way
to go before all of that becomes a reality.
Therefore, it’s better to jot down the things that you want to
achieve so that you’ll not get lost in the way. You may start by
getting into a good pre-med school, then focus on that initially. You
might want to add in your list that you want a good scholarship and
internship. Just make sure that they are doable.
Do not take on several things that you can’t really juggle at the
same time; or else, you might not be able to accomplish anything at
all. This brings us to the next step in developing proper focus and
concentration – prioritize. Listing down your goals is easy, but
learning how to prioritize is something that calls for a great deal of
responsibility.
Not only will this be able to help you balance your time, it will
also help you gain more focus on the things that you want to achieve –
just one step at a time. Sounds simple? Well it may actually be, if you
really put your heart into it. Passion and determination is essential
to help you gain focus on things that you want to do.
It would definitely help you on your way to the top. When you’re not
passionate about something, it’s impossible for you to overcome
hardships and obstacles that you might encounter along the way.
Book Review – Life Was Never Meant To Be A Struggle by Stuart Wilde
Life was never meant to be a struggle by Stuart Wilde was one of the
books (or booklet as he calls it because it is a small book and quite
short) that made a huge difference to my life when I first read it years ago.
Because
I always highlight the books I read it means when I pick them up again
I tend to only focus on the highlight bits which makes re-reading it
faster. (always a good idea to re-read a book at least 3-4 times over a
12 month period).
Here are some great quotes:
"………
If you accept full responsibility for your life, you will accept that
your destiny is created by you. And that your life is basically a
symbol of your inner most thoughts and feelings – of what you believe
about yourself.
He identifies a number of characters that "live" in the strugglers hall of fame:
The Hero – weakness – a lack of personal acceptance
The Terrorist – weakness – Bears a grudge on society
Professional Wimp – weakness – Does not command life
"Spiritual" Wimp – weakness – huge ego, feels like God dropped him off on earth to sit around being "special"
The
Goddess – weakness – similar to spiritual wimp, may dress like a man,
act tougher or with a anything you can do I can do better attitude
Wilting Wallflower – weakness – I am not capable please help me (this one was definitely be back in the day!!)
The conclusion of Life Was Never Meant to be a Struggle by Stuart Wilde:
Once
you acknowledge and accept the struggles in your life (and it takes
courage to identify them) then you have the power to transced.
"Once
you accept you are the cause of struggle you can then affirm, with
certainty, that all struggle in your life can be eliminated, given time"
Its a quick read and a fantastic book. If I had to give Life Was Never Meant to be a Struggle by Stuart Wilde a rating I would rate it 7 out of 10!
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