Ask For What You Want : First Identify why you don’t
Isn’t that a great question to start asking yourself! “Why don’t I ask for what I want?”
After all it isn’t difficult… all you have to do is open your mouth and say what it is you want. Simple!
So then why isn’t it simple if it’s really so simple??? That is what we will figure out together as you read through the series of “Ask For What You Want” blog posts.
Together you and I will go on a journey of which there is no return! You start this journey as a poor, weak, pathetic (bear with me it gets better…) creature desperate to just express what it is you want to say but by the end you will be a super asker super hero…. you become “Ask the warrior princess” as you express yourself simply, easily and without hesitation.
You will finally experience true self expression as you open up to becoming the person you want to be.
You will be the person that justs opens their mouth and asks!
Can you see that right now? Stop and imagine for a second what it will be like. Visualize yourself in front of the person who scares you the most asking for exactly what you want because before long that’s exactly what’s going to happen…. right???!!!
Remember, the power is with you, not with me. Create the intention to make this happen and let’s do this!
Diane Corriette
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The Lionesses Liar
Pleasure beyond belief. Warm sensual place
Entering this deeply forbidden space
It’s scent attracts you. Desire fills you.
There’s nothing more to do but surrender
You touch. It moves under your direction
You taste. Feel it grow. Give it time to expand
At this moment as you move inside now
You’d give up all you have to control this
The movement starts off slow. Enjoy this time
Go deep inside the lionesses liar
Your heart increases. The Rhythm changes
My Love, sweet desire, nothing leaves us
As the rhythm of my love changes
The relief of ecstasy brings the end
Ananda (aka Diane Corriette)
Two more deaths because of debt
This really is getting scary. The number of people who believe that the only option they have is to take their life because of debt.
Did you know that if you rang your credit card company and asked them if you could pay a token payment for a few months they would have little option but to say yes! Even if that payment was £1 a month.
The first death was a 34 year old student who had £40,000 on credit cards and the second a father who took his own life by cutting his throat.
Nothing ever needs to be that bad that you take your own life…. really! Talk to the national debt helpline and find out your options.
If any of the staff at any of the companies that you owe money to are rude or disrespectful immediately tell them you want to speak to someone else. I don’t care how much money you owe no one has the right to speak to you in any manner that isnt 100% helpful.
The worst that can happen is you go through IVA or bankruptcy… and I say that is the worst when compared to taking your own life.
Please talk to someone, get help, ring the people you owe money to and pay them a nominal amount. As long as each month you pay something small they can not accuse you of non payment.
People who went from earning nothing to millionaires
I have included this as a way to inspire you if you are currently going through debt or some other challenge. It is a list of people that overcame great odds to succeed in business/financially.
If you know that your current condition (of debt or financial hardship) is not where you want to be I hope this inspires you. I know I have a vision and I have the desire to succeed. I am always working towards fulfilling that desire, even when my cash flow stops flowing!
So please don’t give up if things aren’t great right now.
If you know of anyone that you want to share please leave a comment so we can all find out about them.
People who succeeded against the odds (and because they were determined to!)
Matt Morris – CEO and founder of Success University – homeless and living in a car Matt now owns a million dollar business that just keeps on growing. Join my team at http://expand.successuniversity.com/specialoffer
or just enjoy the courses and use them to motivate you and keep you focused on improving your current condition at http://expand.successuniversity.com
Robert G Allen. I have alot of Robert G Allen’s material and on one CD he tells the story of running a workshop about how to make millions from property. Only he had just filed for bankruptcy and was at an all time low. Eventually he said he came clean and told the participants but they wanted him to carry on anyway and appreciated his honesty. Now Robert G Allen is a multi-millionaire.
Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen – Chicken Soup for the soul – On a Robert Allen CD he tells the story of the famous Chicked Soup for the Soul book and what Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen had to do to turn it into a best seller. They had to buy $20,000 worth of their own book at a time when they were already in debt. They had to work 10-12 hours for 14 months to see a return on their investment and they succeeded. Now look at it!
Bob Proctor. Multi million Bob Proctor turned his whole life around by doing something he read out of the book “Think and Grow Rich” – he went from earning $4,000 to making a huge $175,000 in a year by doing this one simple and yet highly motivational thing….. which was
“Decide what you want, write it on a card, carry the card with you, read it as often as possible every day, at least every morning when you get up and before you go to bed at night.”
Stephen Pierce put together an excellent interview with Bob Proctor that you can download by clicking the link below.
Stephen Pierce. Stephen Pierce is another success story from a man who was involved in gangs, homeless and turning his life around to now being a multi millionaire. His mind program called Optimindzation has helped thousands of people turn their life around. Find out more here
Five simple yet effective ways to achieve your goals
by Personal Growth Coach, Diane Corriette
When I first started working towards my dreams it was a real hit and miss affair, sometimes I got things done and sometimes I definitely didn’t! So eventually I had to start by setting myself achievement targets, which are more popularly known as goals.
Goal setting for me was an absolute essential because I knew if I didn’t write down what I wanted to achieve then chances are nothing would get done. I also knew I worked better with deadlines and if I didn’t set a date for something to be completed then it probably would drag on for years!
I remember setting myself a goal of completely decorating my house within 3 years, which included some building work. What I didn’t do was set the date for completion so each year I would keep talking about how great my house will look in three years time!!! It took me two years before I realised that I needed to set the end date and of course hardly anything had been done in those two years!
Once I told myself “It is 1999 and by 2002 I will have completely redecorated my house and converted my garage into an office” it became easier to work towards and I achieved that goal (and am sitting in my office now!)
I have put together five easy goal setting tips that helped me stay focused on goal setting and achievement.
1. Break Your Big Goals Down Into Smaller Pieces
How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time!
Trying to eat a whole elephant or trying to look at and achieving your whole goal in one go will become overwhelming so break it down into smaller targets and celebrate each time you achieve one. Each small step brings you closer towards your bigger goal.
2. Write your goals down and read it every day
It’s important that you not only write down what you goal is, when you will achieve it and who will help you achieve it but it is also important that you read it every day. Not only does that help to keep you motivated but it also sends out a message to the universe about what you intend to achieve and you will find that doors magical open for you.
Bob Proctor said that he went from earning $4,000 to making a huge $175,000 in a year thanks to the book “Think & Grow Rich” which told him to write his goal down on a card, carry it round with him and read it every day especially in the morning and at night.
You can read a free report where he talks about that during an interview with Stephen Pierce here http://www.inspirationalguidance.com/attraction.pdf
3. Get an accountability partner or keep yourself accountable
The best way to keep yourself accountable to achieving a goal is to tell others about it. Publicly declare your goals to those around you but watch out for the people who will try and keep you down. Be strong in your resolve to succeed no matter what others say.
It will also help to get yourself one person that you use as a partner (and you can do the same for them). Together you tell each other what you will achieve that day/week and motivate each other to stay on track.
4. Be ready for change and flexible enough to let it happen
Once you have set your goals it does not mean that they are set in stone and cannot be changed. If you allow yourself to be flexible and change your direction (even slightly) you may find your results are far better than you had even imagined. Circumstances change, things go wrong, people leave and shift happens so be willing to bend a little.
5. Do whatever it takes to stay motivated
How many times have you set goals and not achieved them? It happens and it’s important that you come up with ways to keep you motivated. Remember what I have suggested above like reading them every day, celebrating each smaller goal achieved and getting yourself an accountability partner and come up with your own ways to stay motivated too.
One of the ways I keep myself motivated is to constantly listen to self help material, especially when things are not going the way I planned, because I find it inspires me to move forward. I particularly love listening to anyone who achieved against great odds.
Those are the five simple yet effective ways to achieve your goals that I recommend and as always I encourage you to create your own because that’s far more powerful than anything handed to you.
If you are just starting out or if you have never been successful with goal setting I promise you that by simply following the five steps of breaking down your goals, writing them down and reading them every day, keeping yourself accountable, being willing to change and finding ways to stay motivated you will achieve them.
One of the products I have used to help me define my goals clearly (which is very important) is Goals by Zig Ziglar. During these audios you are guided through a ’success trip’ during which you learn techniques for finding extra time you didn’t think you had. He also takes you through how to cut down your big goals into easy-to-handle smaller ones, which was my first tip. I love this audio program and highly recommend it and you can get yourself a copy by visting http://www.inspirationalguidance.com/loves/ziglargoals/
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Love’s Sweet Desire
Each tender kiss brings me to you
Softly. Gently.
My love for you expresses itself through my mouth.
Only just touching your arm you bring me closer.
I sink into the feeling of love that starts in my heart and works its way throughout my entire being.
The warmness glows within me, it floods me,
and the kiss becomes harder. Aching now. Loving your taste, smelling your sweet breath.
I feel your firmness against me.
I am here in this moment with you and expressing my love for you is my only desire.
Written by Ananda
Copyright of Diane Corriette.
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[Your IT Session 3] What’s Your Lifes Purpose?
The search to discover what your life purpose is really doesn’t have to be that difficult. People spend a fortune in time and money to discover what it might be when really it’s quite simple.
All you need to do is ask yourself!
I know, that’s way too simplistic but consider this…. Who knows you better than you do?
The thing is we have been taught to find answers from our parents, from our teachers, from our boss, from our friends, we are so caught up in discovering answers about who we are and what we should be doing in other people that we forget to stop and ask ourselves.
What have you always loved to do?
There will be something since childhood that you have spent your life doing. Its completely natural to you so you may be overlooking it.
Now’s the time to begin the journey of trusting yourself and the answers you have within you.
Start small. Every day smile at someone, or if someone is unhappy cheer them up. Say thank you to someone, praise someone for a job well done. Begin to be of service to other people in small ways that are completely free and take up seconds in your day and see how that makes you feel.
Also ask the question. “What is my purpose in life? I am ready to discover it and I give thanks for having it revealed to me”
Say that (or even better make up your own line) as often as you can. Say it in the morning, during the day, before going to sleep and allow your unconscious mind time to bring it to your attention.
There is no time limit to this so don’t give up after two days because you don’t have an answer, just keep asking the question and the answer will be revealed to you.
In the meantime while you wait be of service to others in whatever way fills you with joy and you will find that before long your purpose will be revealed.
Diane
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Am I A Steve Pavlina Wanna Be?
I received an email about my re-connection to all things personal development and was asked if I was just trying to be a Steve Pavlina wanna be…. I had to laugh out loud (and then ROFL!)
Steve Pavlina (in case you have been in outer space and are not familiar with him) can be found at http://www.stevepavlina.com/ – he writes personal development material, asks for donations (not sure if he still does actually) and is now a published author.
Our message – while similar – is very different because its written from two different societal perspectives. I definitely write from a woman’s perspective and he (not being a woman) definitely doesn’t! Our message is the same when it comes to living your purpose, discovering your own interpretation of the Truth and living authentically but I’m more entertaining than he is 
(it’s good to pop your own collar you know!)
Am I a Steve Pavlina wanna be? No. I’m not. I am already Steve Pavlina… I’ve just been a little slower at getting my message out there! Who I definitely am though is me and everything that goes with that.
Thanks for asking
Diane
Personal Growth Coach and a woman in her own right 
The Bare Foot Doctor Helped My Natural Energy Attraction Factor!
One of the best audio products I bought is called The Urban Warrior’s Way to Health, Wealth, Happiness and Good Looks created by The Bare Foot Doctor.
The audios contain a number of energy meditations that take you through the how to build and put out a particular energy – e.g. charisma/magnestim, perfect health, grace, strength etc
Using the ancient art of Taoism each part of our body represents a particular energy that when evoked can help you transform that area of your life.
It helps you shine internally so that you shine outwardly – which is why he promises it will improve your looks. Nothing physical will change about you but your energy will change which will naturally attract people.
If you are interested in developing your natural energy attraction factor I recommend this product.
Internet Marketing Inner Circle
Willie Crawford has been involved in internet marketing for over 11 years which is why he is now highly respected as an authority. He is also one of the most down to earth guys you can ever meet. Caring, helpful and wanting people to succeed he has used his connections with his top internet marketing friends to put together the internet marketing inner circle at http://www.wimsite.com/recommends/iminnercircle/
But its not just about interviews with a load of names, Willie Crawford has also created some great affiliate opportunities using video – one of the hottest ways to sell right now – and has provided an opportunity for access to his joint venture site where you will find other willing marketers all ready to promote your product.
http://www.wimsite.com/recommends/iminnercircle/
This is where I want my business to be in the future, which is why I joined, so that I can get to know the people that he knows, maybe not all of them personally but I will definitely be building a relationship with future experts! I know I don’t have to tell you the difference it makes to your business when you join an inner circle and build relationships.
What I will say is if your internet based business is in “pain” right now you need to join Willie Crawford’s Internet Marketing Inner Circle NOW and put that right.
I hope to see you in there.