Altogether Fabulous isn’t something you work towards it is something you are
Being altogether fabulous is something you are right now. Only we don’t always recognise how fabulous we are – choosing instead to recognize what is wrong with us and our life. So I want you to know that you are already altogether fabulous and now all we have to do is remove all the fears, obstacles, guilt, doubts and other limits in your way so that the altogether fabulous you shines through.
When will you know you are there? When you decide you are. When you decide that you are living a life you love and you are happy with who you are. That doesn’t mean problems don’t ever come your way or things won’t go wrong – the truth is on the altogether fabulous journey of life things “go wrong” more than normal because we are always being given an opportunity to be the best that we can be.
Being altogether fabulous isn’t something you work towards it is something you are. Problems become a blessing because they teach you something about yourself that you can transform so that it is no longer an issue for you. Embracing problems on your altogether fabulous journey is something I recommend you learn how to do – it may not happen overnight (and then again it just might) and you will need to work towards looking at life in a totally different way.
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building selfTo change your life is a choice
If you are thinking about changing your life then nothing happens until you stop thinking about it and actually set the intention to do it because to change your life is a choice you have to make to begin.
I knew I wanted to change my life for years before I managed to get round to taking that first step and doing it. It is amazing how long I tolerated not being happy and not living a great life. Sometimes I get a little annoyed with myself when I think about the years I wasted hating the way I looked instead of enjoying life. Sometimes I wonder if I should write for all the teenagers out there as much as for my fellow middle aged woman!
Getting annoyed about the past doesn’t help and it definitely robs me of my altogether fabulous aura and shuts down my spiritual connection with my soul. So I allow myself to be frustrated because I don’t believe there is any point in just dismissing it, but I only allow myself minutes now. When I first started on this journey I would allow myself a week or two, then a few days, then a day, then hours, now it is minutes. That’s progress!
Once I made the decision to stop focusing on the past (because the best way to stop living in the past is to just simply decide to stop) and bring myself back to the present moment I can go back to appreciating my life right now.
What you will also find is once you set your intention to change your life the universe will work with you and support you in making the transition but sending lessons, challenges, obstacles and open doors your way – each one has its lessons to learn whether a chance opportunity supplies you with a new job or you lose your job forcing you to change. Believe it or not both those events are wonderful….. from the altogether fabulous perspective anyway! 
I made the choice to change my life and it was a great choice to make because it made me happy – and when we are happy life is so much more fun to live through.
What choice do you need to make in your life right now? Feel free to share it in the comments below.
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building selfWhen you change your life you will have to juggle your life too
What stops people from taking the leap and making an effor to change? Usually its the whole bother of the whole thing because when you change your life you will have to juggle your life too!
Yesterday I was food shopping online. I order my groceries and have them delivered. I have been doing that for around 2 years now with the same company. I shop they drop because every little helps
This week I wanted to try a different company and it meant I had to type in all my food choices all over again. Currently I just click FAVOURITES and I can easily select products I have ordered before but now I had to start again, find them and select them. Only that one time – once I had shopped once they were saved for me but I didn’t want to – even though it looked like I could save money off my bill each week I didn’t want the hassle of starting again.
When I recognised that I was keeping myself stuck because of not wanting to make a change I went ahead and ordered with the new company but it took a real effort – I didn’t know where everything was, there was stuff I ordered on the other site not available on this new one. It was different, things were in a different place. I wanted what was familiar and what I knew already.
It took me an hour to shop for stuff that usually takes under 20 minutes but I did it because I refuse to keep myself stuck simply because of the “hassle” of changing.
The sad thing is loads of women do this all the time. They stay stuck in a job, in a situation, in a relationship simply because they don’t want the hassle of changing.
When you change your life you will have to juggle your life too.
Things will be new. Things will be different. For a while you may have to adjust but in time everything will settle down once more and life will move on – life will become better, life may even become more fun.
To change your life means to cope with a little disruption while the life change takes place. Be ready to deal with it or be ready to stay stuck and unhappy until you do. As always the choice is definitely all yours.
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building self