Altogether Fabulous isn’t something you work towards it is something you are
Being altogether fabulous is something you are right now. Only we don’t always recognise how fabulous we are – choosing instead to recognize what is wrong with us and our life. So I want you to know that you are already altogether fabulous and now all we have to do is remove all the fears, obstacles, guilt, doubts and other limits in your way so that the altogether fabulous you shines through.
When will you know you are there? When you decide you are. When you decide that you are living a life you love and you are happy with who you are. That doesn’t mean problems don’t ever come your way or things won’t go wrong – the truth is on the altogether fabulous journey of life things “go wrong” more than normal because we are always being given an opportunity to be the best that we can be.
Being altogether fabulous isn’t something you work towards it is something you are. Problems become a blessing because they teach you something about yourself that you can transform so that it is no longer an issue for you. Embracing problems on your altogether fabulous journey is something I recommend you learn how to do – it may not happen overnight (and then again it just might) and you will need to work towards looking at life in a totally different way.
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building selfWhen you change your life you will have to juggle your life too
What stops people from taking the leap and making an effor to change? Usually its the whole bother of the whole thing because when you change your life you will have to juggle your life too!
Yesterday I was food shopping online. I order my groceries and have them delivered. I have been doing that for around 2 years now with the same company. I shop they drop because every little helps 
This week I wanted to try a different company and it meant I had to type in all my food choices all over again. Currently I just click FAVOURITES and I can easily select products I have ordered before but now I had to start again, find them and select them. Only that one time – once I had shopped once they were saved for me but I didn’t want to – even though it looked like I could save money off my bill each week I didn’t want the hassle of starting again.
When I recognised that I was keeping myself stuck because of not wanting to make a change I went ahead and ordered with the new company but it took a real effort – I didn’t know where everything was, there was stuff I ordered on the other site not available on this new one. It was different, things were in a different place. I wanted what was familiar and what I knew already.
It took me an hour to shop for stuff that usually takes under 20 minutes but I did it because I refuse to keep myself stuck simply because of the “hassle” of changing.
The sad thing is loads of women do this all the time. They stay stuck in a job, in a situation, in a relationship simply because they don’t want the hassle of changing.
When you change your life you will have to juggle your life too.
Things will be new. Things will be different. For a while you may have to adjust but in time everything will settle down once more and life will move on – life will become better, life may even become more fun.
To change your life means to cope with a little disruption while the life change takes place. Be ready to deal with it or be ready to stay stuck and unhappy until you do. As always the choice is definitely all yours.
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building selfSelf confidence in middle age
What happens to our self confidence in middle age? Why is it that at a time when we are sexually our most alluring (if we allow ourself to be) we spend it looking in the mirror and wishing we were in our 20s again. I sometimes wish I was in my 20s but only because I spent it so shy and never doing anything with life I feel I wasted it a little and if I could go back I would travel and do as much as I could meeting great people along the way.
The problem with that is I am living in the past and I can’t go back – so what’s the point? If I could change it by focusing on it fair enough but its impossible to go back – so why bother?
I refuse to wish my body was any other way apart from how it is because it is a waste of time. I am on a serious weight loss program but again – not because there is anything wrong with the way I look – but because I want to stay healthy as I move into middle age and older. I want to remain flexible and being overweight has the potential to take away flexible and strength as we get older.
Do you want to know the secret to becoming unstoppable? - it's all about building self