In order to start working towards fulfilling your desire and getting your “IT” back you are going to have to slay a few dragons but first, even more terrifying than the continuous dragons that will fly your way is the mighthy first step you have to take.
The step I like to call your Goliath!
We are all familiar with the story of David and Goliath and if you are not the story goes that Goliath held a mighty army at bay by challenging them to slay him – if they lose they all become slaves. No one was brave enough to take him on but little David walked down to the battlefield, threw a stone at him and killed him dead.
What did David have that the others didn’t? Complete belief in his ability to slay this challenge despite how huge it seemed, despite the fact that he was tiny compared to it and despite the fact that it was something he had never attempted to do before (although he had killed a lion and a bear!!!)
As well as belief in his ability he had another huge thing that carried him through and that was his faith. His faith that whatever happened this was going to work out okay for him because he had God on his side. Now you may not believe in God but are you able to hold that feeling of complete faith that your desire will be fulfilled? That the dream you want will be a success?
First you have to experience the feeling of knowing….. Have you ever felt that feeling of just knowing something was going to work out? Or that something was definitely going to be there?
Think back to an experience in your life and capture that feeling of knowing. If you can’t think of one then consider the air you breathe. You don’t doubt that it is still going to be there tomorrow or next week (well at least I hope you don’t!) You have absolute faith that an hour from now air will still be available to you and you will be able to breathe. Now can you take that absolute feeling of knowing and transfer it to your goal/dream?
This may take some practise and patience but I promise you it will be worth it.
Not knowing is okay too
You don’t always have to have a strong knowing to succeed but it definitely does help! The only thing you must avoid is doubting something will ever work. If you are having trouble bringing up a feeling of knowing in you then that is okay because in time as you continue to work towards fulfilling your dream you will begin to feel that you know everything is going to work out – what you need to do at all costs is avoid the
feeling of NOT knowing (also known as doubt and fear)…… does that make sense????!!!!
The feeling of knowing will come as things begin to happen, as they begin to work. My desire to live and work around the world seemed like a far off dream back in 2005 but now it is so much closer and in another 4-5 years I will be living it as a reality. I am closer now to knowing it will
happen than I was back then so the feeling of knowing and certainty grows stronger within me. The thing I never did was doubt or worry about whether it would ever happen.
That doubt, worry, fear and all those other negative emotions are your Goliath and the tiny stone and sling your faith. You need to continually throw the stone at your Goliath, especially when things look like they are going wrong. Stand firm in your desire to achieve your goal and just throw the stone whenever negative feelings arise.
In order to fulfill an unfulfilled desire spend some time in silence, close your eyes and feel the sensation of knowing that this is going to happen.
Do this especially when fear, doubt, worry and all the other negative emotions creep up. Challenge yourself by asking why it is so much easier to feel fear than certainty, belief and a sense of knowing then choose which one you prefer.
And know that God (universe, divine, higher self) is also there waiting to support you with moving towards your desire too – life is so much easier when we plug into this unseen force.
